Something Borrowed, Something Blue
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There are some traditions that still exist in a wedding world where anything goes. One of these traditions centers on the old adage, "something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue." If you're scratching your head to figure out what you'll do for each, here are some suggestions.
Something Old
One of the biggest mistakes a bride can make on the day of her wedding is wearing brand new shoes. Nothing says pain and discomfort quite like pinched toes, blistering heels, and achy calves. Save yourself the trouble and solve the "something old" problem at the same time by wearing a pair of shoes that have actually been out and about several times before your big day.
Another option for "something old" is to wear your mother's wedding ring on your right hand during your ceremony. This extra piece of bling will not only look great, it will serve as a reminder that a marriage takes hard work and dedication to survive the long haul.
If high school or college were important times in your life, consider wearing your alumni ring on your right hand to signify all of the personal achievements that occurred prior to your nuptials.
Something New
This might seem obvious, but make sure to wear a new pair of underwear on your wedding day. There's something about a never-worn set of lingerie that makes a woman feel that much sexier. In this vein, make sure you buy new shapewear to hold in the bits that didn't end up getting as toned as you had previously hoped.
Given that your mouth will be showcased in thousands of pictures, you'll want your lips to appear luscious and kissable. Head to Sephora a couple of weeks before your big day to find a new hue that works well with your dress and your location. Do a test picture run with a couple of shades to determine which shade is represented the best in pictures.
Something Borrowed
As you consider what to borrow, remember the Golden Rule of Stuff: don't borrow anything that you think will be irreplaceable to the owner of the item. This means that you should gracefully decline when your friend offers to loan you her grandmother's pearls for your big day. Stick with borrowing a pretty hair clip, a pair of stilettos, or a hand-me-down bridal purse, all of which can be easily replaced should they get lost in the wedding shuffle.
If you're low on cash and looking to tackle two problems with one solution, consider borrowing a friend's wedding dress. Not only will it save you some serious cash, it will also create a memorable bond between you and your friend for years to come. Again, make sure that your friend understands that the dress may endure some unexpected hardships during your ceremony and reception, causing it to be returned slightly different from how it was received. If you don't get the sense that your friend would be comfortable with this, trust your instincts and skip borrowing the dress.
Something Blue
The best place to incorporate "something blue" is by using accessories. Consider wearing sapphire earrings or a necklace with a blue stone. Slip on white gloves with a blue trim or add a blue sash to accent your gown.
Something blue can be kind of tricky if you're a more traditional bride who is not looking to add a splash of color to your dress or accessories. If this is your situation, have your seamstress embroider your name and the date of your wedding on the inside of your dress using blue thread. This tiny reminder of your special day will help personalize your dress and make you feel connected to the gown for years to come.
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